Sunday, February 22, 2009

Nashville Wedding

Last year when I got married everyone I knew was giving me advice and suggestions on etiquette. I am sure all you other Nashville brides who are planning your perfect Nashville wedding are experiencing the same thing. Everyone will try to transform your wedding and it can easily turn from “your day” to everyone else’s day. You have to juggle family, friends, and wedding planners. You have to find a Nashville wedding cake that makes both you and your bride happy, feeds people and stays in budget. People will dictate what kind of dress you should wear and expect you to follow traditional wedding themes.This can make planning a wedding a challenge, so we really suggest you set your own rules.

Weddings can quickly get caught up in a set of rules, but honestly you just need to push them aside and do your own thing. There plenty of options for a Nashville wedding that will allow you to keep it classic and traditional or new and trendy. There is no need to follow any wedding rules.

Some of the best weddings in Nashville that I have been to (mainly my friends) have been great when the bride made the choice to have a funky and clever wedding instead of an old school classical one. I’ve seen some beautiful wedding cakes, dresses, and themes. All of these girls were lucky enough to find a Nashville wedding planner who was open to many ideas and worked hard to create the bride’s dream. There are some really good wedding planners in Nashville, so do not settle for anyone who will not deliver your day the way you want it.

So forget the expectations of your friends and family. It is your day and the only two people who should be pleased at the end of the day is you and your fiancé. So get what you want in mind, find a good wedding planner and get to work.

And even though its fun to say “do what you want”, you must keep in mind how much money you have to spend. So I guess in addition to your man, you must also make your wedding budget happy. Luckily, there are a ton of options available for a Nashville wedding to fit into anyone’s budget. The important thing to do is to set the budget before you begin. Before looking for a planner, a cake, a dress, or location; you need to make some choices about your budget.

First site down with you fiancé and determine how much you can afford to spend on both your wedding and honeymoon. It is important to be candid with each other, because you do no want to start your marriage in debt because you did not plan your wedding properly. A marriage is a fun time and you do not want to deal with financial problems associated with it. There are all kinds of fees that can come up from a Nashville wedding photographer to a wedding dj. Little things can add up from invitations to wedding favors.


Some times it is time to hit up the family, but it is important to ask them how much they’re willing to spend. You do not want money issues to ruin your wedding day or hurt your relationship with any family member. It is good to clear this stuff up early so you do not have to deal with it as it gets closer to your wedding date. This way you can focus on the important things, while having a great time with your family.

Lastly you need to make some priorities. On you wedding day, what is the most important to you? How important is your wedding dress? Do you want a nice wedding cake make here in Nashville? What Nashville wedding photographer do you want to use, and how important is photo quality? Where in Nashville do you want to have the reception? What about dinner? Invitations? And even your wedding day shoes. I suggest ranking each of these and they will help you set priorities in your budget.

Once you make up priorities, it will be easier to determine how much you should spend on each time. Maybe invitations aren’t important, but photos are. So you should set aside a larger budget for hiring a Nashville wedding photographer.

Start with what is important and work your way down. Also talk with people who have had weddings recently, because they might provide advice on prioritizing your wants.

It is a smart idea to hire a Nashville wedding planner who can help you sort all this stuff out. They work with this stuff daily and have the experience to help you plan and set a budget. Your Nashville wedding with be beautiful, you just have to take the time to plan and be prepared.

1 comment:

  1. Thanks Sara for sharing.Thanks for the information provided by you.Wish you n all couples across the world a great joyful married life.

    Cheers!!
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